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#268: How to Write Riveting, Believable Dialogue: 3 Essential Techniques

Feb 24, 2026
A deep dive into what makes conversation feel alive on the page. Learn three techniques that energize scenes: conflicting agendas that spark tension, misunderstandings that create dramatic gaps, and subtext that hides the real emotions. Practical revision steps reveal the conversation beneath the conversation.
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INSIGHT

Dialogue Should Feel Real But Do Real Work

  • Real dialogue should create the illusion of speech while doing story work.
  • Nancy Panuccio explains transcripts are boring; readers want authenticity that reveals character, tension, and plot.
ADVICE

Give Each Character A Competing Agenda

  • Give each character a competing agenda to energize any conversation.
  • Nancy suggests listing what each character wants from the exchange (reassurance, avoid intensity, win, connect) so lines naturally pull in different directions.
ANECDOTE

Little Fires Everywhere Example Of Competing Agendas

  • Little Fires Everywhere scene shows mother and daughter with different goals in a questioning exchange.
  • Elena wants confession and order; Izzy deflects to protect siblings, creating a tense dance without overt conflict.
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