How to Be a Better Human

How to embrace rejection (with Jia Jiang)

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Aug 29, 2022
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INSIGHT

Big Impact Requires Many Rejections

  • Big dreams require many more rejections than we expect, and quitting early preserves a false possibility of eventual success.
  • Enduring many rejections is often the path to the strong acceptance that creates major impact.
ADVICE

Remember You Won't Die From No

  • Realize you will not die from being rejected and let that knowledge loosen your fear before you act.
  • That mental shift makes asking easier and opens you to unexpected yeses.
ANECDOTE

The Donut Shop Yes

  • On day three of his experiment Jia asked a donut maker to link five donuts like Olympic rings and unexpectedly got a yes.
  • That yes revealed how many opportunities we miss by assuming automatic rejection.
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