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108: Recapping the Last 18 Months of Our Lives with Stef Bare

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Feb 17, 2025

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Stef Bare

Stef Bare, author of the children's book "Go One More!" and wife of Nick Bare, shares an intimate recap of the past 18 months filled with parenting, multiple relocations, and a life-altering car accident. They explore the challenges of raising two young children and the significance of building community. Their discussion highlights the importance of staying present and finding joy in everyday moments. They also unveil exciting plans for Bare Ranch, a space designed for connection and spiritual growth, emphasizing the balance between family life and personal development.

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Community is Key

Stef's biggest lesson was the importance of in-person community, especially when moving somewhere new.
She felt isolated and anxious in Nashville, but prioritizing community back in Texas relieved those feelings.

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Extrovert vs. Introvert

Stef is an extrovert, gaining energy from people, while Nick is an introvert, needing alone time to recharge.
They discuss the importance of having the right people in one's life.

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ANECDOTE

Wine Rack Woes

Nick recounted a story of Stef hanging a heavy wine rack with tiny nails on drywall, not studs.
He now takes the lead on hanging items.

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Gourmet Chicken Experiences and Recipes

01:47 • 2min

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Navigating Parenthood and Relocation

03:53 • 20min

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Finding Joy in the Present

23:58 • 13min

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Enhancing Endurance Training Through Nutrition and Hydration

36:48 • 4min

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Navigating Life's Turbulence

40:23 • 14min

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Transformative Journeys: Balancing Parenthood and Personal Growth

54:01 • 23min

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Building a Ranch for Connection and Spiritual Growth

01:16:47 • 5min

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The Importance of People in Business Strategy

01:21:33 • 2min

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I'm welcoming back my wife, Stef, for an overdue catch-up on the trials and triumphs we've faced over the last 18 months.

From the birth of our son, Niko, adjusting to life with two young children, surviving multiple moves including a brief stint in Nashville, and dealing with getting hit by a car back in December, we share how these experiences have reshaped our perspectives on family, work, and faith.

We also discuss the importance of in-person community building, parenting challenges, and our goals for 2025 and the future, including exciting plans for Bare Ranch.

CHAPTERS

00:00 Welcome Back to the Podcast

02:29 The Best Chicken Recipe

04:19 Reflecting on 18 Months of Madness

11:29 Lessons from Nashville

13:52 The Importance of Community

18:35 Balancing Alone Time and Socialization

29:08 The Two-Kid Life

37:43 The Car Accident: A Life-Changing Event

47:44 Balancing Work, Family, and Personal Growth

55:43 Parenting Challenges and Toddlerhood

01:10:09 Creative Resurgence and Community Building