Theology in the Raw Surrendered Sexuality: Dr. Juli Slattery
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Oct 6, 2025 
Dr. Juli Slattery, a clinical psychologist and president of Authentic Intimacy, explores the complexities of sexuality from a Christian perspective. She highlights common issues in marriages, such as mismatched desires and the impact of pornography. Juli dives into the changing landscape of female desire and the effects of cultural demeaning of men. She emphasizes the importance of surrendering identity to Christ for true healing and intimacy. The conversation also touches on the serious implications of emotional abuse and the necessity of community in fostering healthy relationships.
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Combine Therapy And Spiritual Work For Trauma
- Healing from sexual trauma requires both psychological work and spiritual renewal of mind to unearth implanted lies.
- Expect a long process where redemption may follow instead of full erasure of the wound.
Redemption Differs From Complete Erasure
- Distinguish redemption (God using pain for good) from complete healing (as if it never happened); many victims experience redemption.
- Deep wounds can become places of profound knowledge of God's love over time.
Don’t Rush Forgiveness After Abuse
- Do not rush or demand forgiveness from survivors; forgiveness often comes late after substantial healing.
- Allow victims time to process harm and understand what needs forgiveness before pressing reconciliation.
