Holistic Life Navigation [Ep. 2] Fawning: The Most Overlooked Trauma Response | Luis Mojica
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Jul 4, 2020 
Luis Mojica, a trauma response expert and author, discusses fawning as a frequently overlooked trauma response. The podcast explores the origins and effects of fawning, its connection to sexual trauma, and the importance of setting boundaries. It highlights the difference between manners and fawning, emphasizing personal growth. The significance of containment and movement in trauma response, overcoming fawning, and connecting with one's body are also discussed.
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Train Body To Handle Disappointment
- Build physical capacity in your body to handle others' disappointment instead of fawning.
- Notice bodily constriction and discomfort as early warning signs to work through.
Manners Versus Fawning
- Manners show respect and awareness, whereas fawning goes beyond and is driven by panic to avoid conflict.
- Fawning involves over-apologizing and excessive pleasing that breaks boundaries.
Fawning Roots in Childhood Survival
- Fawning develops in childhood when honesty feels unsafe and survival depends on appeasing others.
- Generations pass on fawning when parents model or require it for safety and love.