Consider This from NPR They Say You Can't Choose Your Family, But Some Do
Dec 28, 2022
Dr. Lexx Brown-James, a marriage and family therapist and sexologist based in St. Louis, explores the profound concept of chosen families—those bonds formed by deep connections rather than blood ties. The conversation dives into personal stories revealing how chosen families provide vital emotional support, especially for those marginalized by their biological families. It also highlights the transformative power these relationships have during struggles, showcasing love and acceptance that can create a safety net in challenging times.
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Chosen Family: Love and Lack of Obligation
- Kaisa Lightfoot emphasizes that chosen family relationships are based on love and lack obligation, unlike biological families.
- She recounts making a friend's first-ever birthday cake, highlighting the profound impact of chosen families.
Jodi's Support System
- Jodi, an Alabama mom of LGBTQ children, found her chosen family provided crucial support when her children faced bullying.
- Her friends stood up for her kids at school, demonstrating the strength of chosen family bonds.
Dunite's Lifeline
- For Dunite, whose family is facing conflict in Ethiopia, their chosen family provides essential emotional support.
- This chosen family allows Dunite to be themselves without pretense, offering a sense of belonging and protection.