Love In The Time Of Doom Scrolling

Feb 11, 2026

Maria Avgitidis, a third-generation matchmaker and CEO of Agapi Match, and Jojo Manzo, musician and TikTok creator who ran a viral doom-scroll speed date. They talk about comment-section meet-cutes on TikTok. They debate AI matchmaking versus community-driven dating. They explore friction, proximity, and the messy questions around sharing location in relationships.

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ANECDOTE

Doomscroll Speed Date Sparks Real Replies

Jojo Manzo turned late-night doomscrolling into a matchmaking experiment by asking viewers to post photos, memes, age, and location in the comments.
Thousands replied and some matches and flirty exchanges emerged organically in the thread.

INSIGHT

Careless Posting Beats Curated Profiles

Jojo argues TikTok lowers pressure because people post carelessly, which can feel more authentic than curated dating profiles.
That casual environment enabled more spontaneous flirting and reduced swipe-style fatigue.

ADVICE

Use Community, Not Just Algorithms

Maria Avgitidis emphasizes matchmaking is community work and not a solo, algorithmic task.
Do build social circles and involve family or friends to increase trust and long-term compatibility.

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In honor of Valentine’s Day, we’re bringing you an episode about love. We start with TikTok creator Jojo Manzo, who turned his late-night doomscrolling into a matchmaking experiment when he invited thousands of strangers to flirt in his comment section. Then we talk to Maria Avgitidis, a third-generation matchmaker, about why friction, community, and a little discomfort might actually be the point of dating. And finally, we get to the physical … or, at least, geographical. When you find someone you care about, do you share your location with them? Is it intimacy, convenience, surveillance or all three? We explore what it looks like to find human connection in a deeply digital world.

Guests:

Maria Avgitidis Pyrgiotakis, matchmaker and CEO of Agapematch

Jojo Manzo, musician and content creator

Friends of Close All Tabs: Mandy Seiner and Jackson Maxwell, Anna Iovine, Tanya Chen, Amanda Silberling, Harriet Weber, and Taj Weaver

Further Reading/Listening:

You Don’t Need to Swipe Right. A.I. Is Transforming Dating Apps — Eli Tan, The New York Times

To Share or Not to Share? How Location Sharing Is Changing Our Relationships — Modern Love Podcast

‘Perfection without the connection’: How AI is becoming a digital wingman — Hani Richter, Reuters

The Doomed Dream of an AI Matchmaker — Faith Hill, The Atlantic

Ask A Matchmaker: Matchmaker Maria’s No Nonsense Guide to Finding Love — Maria Avgitidis, Matchmaker Maria

Is U-Hauling Real? Here's What's Behind The Lesbian Stereotype — Lea Rose Emery, Bustle

What's The Deal With U-Haul Lesbians? — Kira Deshler, Paging Dr. Lesbian

Read the transcript here.

Credits:

Close All Tabs is hosted by Morgan Sung. Our team includes producer Maya Cueva, editor Chris Hambrick and senior editor Chris Egusa who also composed our theme song and credits music. Additional producing support by Gabriela Glueck. Additional music from APM. Audio engineering by Brendan Willard. Audience engagement support from Maha Sanad. Jen Chien is our Director of Podcasts. Katie Sprenger is our Director of Content Operations. Ethan Toven-Lindsey is our Editor in Chief.

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