The Mating Grounds Podcast Helping Joe, Episode 26
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Jul 27, 2015 In this episode, Joe gives updates on his recent dates and receives advice on avoiding social isolation and managing his emotional issues. They discuss the benefits of joining a co-working space and the importance of a nice mattress. They explore taking action in psychoanalysis and reflect on missed opportunities for connection. They also discuss making excuses to leave social situations and share personal anecdotes about wine preferences.
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Dates, Kissing, And Fixing His Room
- Joe describes three different recent dates and how he handled each situation, including kissing a cute bank auditor but not pursuing sex due to logistics and room shame.
- He used the experience to realize improving his living situation (bought a bed frame and mattress) would remove excuses for not inviting people over.
Anxiety Often Rooted In Early Abandonment
- Tucker explains most anxiety traces back to early abandonment and feelings of isolation.
- That childhood linkage explains why Joe fears making mistakes and being abandoned in adult social settings.
Use Work To Create A Daily Tribe
- Consider working in a social workplace or joining a co-working space to see the same people regularly.
- Treat a job or co-working membership as a primary way to form a daily tribe and receive social course-corrections.