Be Well by Kelly Leveque 378: Stop Hustling for Worth, Heal People-Pleasing, + Feel Enough | Maggie Nick
What if the version of you that’s always “good,” agreeable, and holding it all together… isn’t actually you? In this episode, I sit down with Maggie Nick, founder of Camp Lovable, to unpack the deep conditioning so many women carry around being liked, chosen, and “enough.” We talk about people-pleasing, nervous system safety, and why hustling for your worth keeps you stuck. Maggie breaks down the psychology in a way that actually lands, helping you feel seen, safe, and human. If you’re ready to drop the act and trust yourself again, this one’s for you.
Topics Discussed:
→ What is Good Girl conditioning
→ How to stop people pleasing
→ Why do I seek approval
→ How to feel safe being yourself
→ How to build self worth
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Timestamps:
→ 00:00:00 - Introduction
→ 00:01:22 - Maggie’s Mental Health Journey
→ 00:03:53 - Defining The “Good Kid”
→ 00:05:33 - Birth Order
→ 00:09:56 - Kelly The Chameleon
→ 00:12:43 - Inherited Parenting Habits
→ 00:16:47 - Understanding Shame
→ 00:20:46 - Curious Not Critical
→ 00:24:01 - Checking In
→ 00:29:42 - Apologizing To Your Child
→ 00:32:26 - Boundaries
→ 00:34:35 - Check Your Expectations
→ 00:36:16 - Stand By Them
→ 00:38:26 - Being Impressive
→ 00:44:18 - Unconditional Love
→ 00:48:51 - Building Trust
→ 00:54:04 - Intuitive Children
→ 00:57:50 - The Heart Smile Board
→ 01:02:58 - Fight, Flight, Fawn, Freeze
→ 01:07:47 - Healing “Good Kids”
→ 01:13:53 - Parenting Styles
→ 01:17:15 - Self-Talk
→ 01:19:49 - Best Parenting Moment
→ 01:24:55 - Phones + Social Media
Show Links:
→ Repressed Emotions, Anxiety + Why Self-Improvement Doesn’t Exist | Joe Hudson
Check Out:
→ Instagram: @maggiewithperspectacles
→ TikTok: @maggiewithperspectacles
→ New Book: Good Kids (available now)
Check Out Kelly:
→ Youtube