Breakpoint BONUS: Children in the Image of God
Jan 21, 2026
Dr. Jeff Myers, President of Summit Ministries and author on cultural trends, teams up with Dr. Kathy Koch, founder of Celebrate Kids and child development expert. They discuss raising gender-confident children, the shift in transgender visibility, and the importance of biblical guidance for parents. The duo emphasizes early affirmation of identity, handling tough questions with calmness, and finding trustworthy counselors. They also highlight research showing many youth resolve gender confusion naturally, encouraging parents to create supportive, well-informed environments.
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Gender Confusion Fits A Bigger Identity Crisis
- Gender confusion is a subset of a broader identity crisis where kids don't know who they are or their purpose.
- Restoring identity requires grounding children in God as intentional Creator and teaching gender as part of that story.
Affirm Kids Early Without Stereotypes
- With young children, remove pressure to conform to stereotypes and affirm what you see in them.
- Tell them God made them on purpose and their body is good while remaining polite to confused people.
Choose Low-Pressure Moments To Talk
- Avoid debating gender online or in high-intensity confrontations; find side-by-side, low-pressure moments to talk.
- Use car rides or casual settings to discuss sensitive topics so kids don't feel stared at or defensive.
