#65: How to Be More Magnetic in Conversations

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Mar 30, 2026

Everyday conversations shape trust, opportunities, and team culture. Learn why slowing your pace reduces tension and why curiosity builds rapport. Hear practical moves to tune in, ask better questions, and make people feel seen. Discover simple phrases and behaviors that help others lean in and choose to work with you.

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ANECDOTE

Don's Weekend Question Trick

Donald Miller describes changing his routine from jumping to business to asking about weekends to build rapport.
He notes social people need only a few minutes of connection before discussing work effectively.

INSIGHT

Magnetism Is Perceived Safety

People who are magnetic reduce anxiety, make others feel safe, and remember personal details.
Those traits convert into being chosen for promotions, clients, and stronger relationships because people prefer survival assets.

ADVICE

Slow Down To Reduce Tension

Slow down your speech and pauses to create calm, lowering tension in conversations.
Speak 10–20% slower and pause a few seconds before replying so you appear thoughtful and make others feel safe.

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