
Hello Monday with Jessi Hempel Feeling Powerless at Work? Here’s Where Your Agency Still Lives
May 4, 2026
Aiko Bethea, leadership coach and author of Anchored, Aligned, Accountable, offers a compact bio and roadmap for reclaiming agency at work. She talks about why work feels more chaotic, what being anchored in your values really looks like, how alignment speeds decisions, the many forms of workplace power, and why curiosity and generous accountability change how teams repair and grow.
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Self Leadership Replaces Waiting For Calm
- Work cycles have sped up and quiet seasons disappeared, making external stability unreliable.
- Aiko Bethea says self-leadership is essential now because you must be the metronome for your own life and refuse to wait for things to slow down.
Make Values Actionable Behaviors
- Identify your top two values and the behaviors that show them so they become your North Star.
- Aiko recommends translating vague values like "family" into specific behaviors (e.g., providing financially vs. time spent) to guide decisions.
Use Values To Speed Hard Decisions
- Align actions and choices with those two values so decisions become faster and clearer.
- Aiko says knowing values reduces internal friction like persistent conflicts and speeds hard decision-making.





