Shameless Sex #267 Spank Me! Choke Me! (but learn these tools first) - with Orpheus Black
Mar 15, 2022
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How One Club Night Launched A Kink Career
- Orpheus describes his first introduction to kink at a Goth-industrial club where he watched an extreme suspension/choking performance and was invited on stage.
- That moment sparked his career in kink performance and education, shifting him from outsider to lifelong practitioner and teacher.
Kink Is Your Personal Deviation From Normal
- Orpheus frames kink as an umbrella for deviations from one's personal sexual norms, with fetish defined as a prerequisite for gratification.
- Fetish requires specific rituals or objects (e.g., feet with certain polish/scent) to produce the intended sexual response.
Most People Are Kinky On A Spectrum
- Orpheus cites surveys showing roughly one in two people identify as kinky, emphasizing degree rather than binary status.
- He offers a quick mental test: compare what you call 'normal' sexual acts to what you personally find non-normal to see your kink spectrum.