The Daily Aus What does an intimacy coordinator actually do?
Feb 26, 2026
They explore the role of intimacy coordinators and how they choreograph consent like stunt coordination to keep actors safe. They discuss pre-shoot boundary talks, blocking and handling awkwardness on set. The conversation covers how realism and changing representation, including queer visibility and the female gaze, reshape on-screen portrayals of desire and consent.
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Intimacy Coordination Is Choreographed Consent
- Intimacy coordination choreographs consent around intimate scenes like a stunt coordinator does for fights.
- Alex Trkulia describes pre-shoot conversations about boundaries and blocking so filming runs smoothly and performers feel safe.
Discuss Boundaries Before You Film Intimacy
- Set boundaries and discuss hard no's before filming intimate scenes to protect performers' comfort.
- Alex Trkulia recommends discussing storytelling goals with the team and rehearsing/blocking when time allows.
Screen Sex Teaches Real World Intimacy
- Media not only reflects culture but also teaches people about intimacy and sex.
- Alex Trkulia notes performers and coordinators shape narratives that influence audience expectations and sexual learning.