CCEF Podcast: Where Life & Scripture Meet Understanding Grief: A Journey Through Loss
Nov 17, 2025
Darby Strickland, a counselor specializing in grief and loss, joins Esther Liu, who offers a personal and theological perspective on spiritual care. They delve into the complexities of lingering grief, highlighting how it can resurface during significant life events. Community support is emphasized as crucial for navigating this journey. They also discuss the often unrealistic expectations around grief timelines, the importance of shared memories, and practical ways to support those grieving long-term. Ultimately, they remind listeners of God's unwavering presence in times of loss.
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Milestones Reopen Grief
- Esther recalls wanting to tell David Paulson about career milestones after his death and how milestones repeatedly reopen grief.
- She explains grief resurfaces differently across life stages, not because earlier grief failed, but because life changes reveal new losses.
The World Moves On Without The Griever
- Gunnar observes life moves on quickly while the griever's life feels halted and imploded by loss.
- That disparity amplifies the sense of isolation and the weight of the absence.
Show Up And Listen Over Time
- Esther says the single biggest help she received was a friend who listened patiently over years and prayed with her.
- Show up long-term and hold space even when the griever rushes themselves to 'be over it.'