Ridiculous History

CLASSIC: Benjamin Franklin's Advice On "Finding A Mistress"

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Nov 22, 2025
The hosts dive into Benjamin Franklin's reputation as a notorious womanizer and his infamous 1745 letter on choosing a mistress. They read and dissect his advice on preferring older partners, citing reasons like better conversation and discretion. The conversation considers whether Franklin's words were genuine or satirical, exposing the contradictions in his views. Listeners are also treated to Franklin's humorous takes on drunkenness and anecdotes from the audience, adding a light-hearted touch to the historical exploration.
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ANECDOTE

Reputation As A Womanizer

  • The hosts note Franklin reportedly fathered about 15 illegitimate children and had many affairs.
  • They mention rumors of relationships with significantly younger women and a mother-daughter pair.
INSIGHT

Paradox: Prefer Older Partners

  • Franklin advised preferring older women in affairs and outlined several pragmatic reasons.
  • He presented this as a paradoxical recommendation if one refuses to marry.
ADVICE

Why Franklin Favored Older Women

  • Franklin's reasons favor older women: better conversation, discretion, and no childbearing risk.
  • He explicitly lists practical benefits like care during sickness and greater gratitude.
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