
LessWrong (30+ Karma) “Pray for Casanova” by Tomás B.
Mar 28, 2026
A meditation on what happens when beauty is lost and how people cope, grow bitter, or become marked by revulsion. Historical portraits of Mary Wortley Montagu, John Wilmot, and Casanova explore decline, nostalgia, and social obsolescence. The piece questions whether reliving past pleasures is a kind of earned wireheading and probes plastic surgery, future restorative tech, and moral prayers for the marred.
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Beauty's Halo And The Anti-Halo Effect
- Beauty grants an invisible halo that softens life and its loss can produce active revulsion rather than mere sadness.
- Tomás B. contrasts those who cope with disfigurement with some who become bitter monsters after losing their social advantage.
Lady Mary Wortley Montagu's Smallpox Exile
- Lady Mary Wortley Montagu contracted smallpox at her height and became pockmarked, then wrote poetry about hiding from public life.
- Tomás B. reads lines from her Town Eclogues showing self-exile and ruined vanity after disfigurement.
John Wilmot's Rake Turned Ruined
- John Wilmot, famed for beauty and satire, died young looking old and disabled, likely from syphilis complications.
- Tomás B. quotes Wilmot boasting that past pleasures paid for present scars and encouraging others to indulge.



