The Documentary Podcast

Why I chose to adopt

Dec 27, 2025
Jennifer Aniston's controversial comments about adoption spark a compelling discussion on choices surrounding parenthood. Four women share their deeply personal journeys, revealing societal pressures they faced regarding IVF and adoption. Margaret recounts her immediate bond with her adoptive daughter, contrasting Imogen's lifelong dream of adoption amid family skepticism. Adult adoptees share their experiences with identity and public stigma, shedding light on the emotional complexities of being adopted. The conversation dives into the challenges and triumphs of forging familial connections.
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ANECDOTE

Holidays Can Trigger Deep Trauma

  • Imogen shares how Christmas triggered severe trauma reactions in her adopted son.
  • Festive events tied to a child's removal can cause long-lasting avoidance and distress.
ADVICE

Own Your Family Story Publicly

  • Be open about your family story and refuse to hide the mixed routes used to build your family.
  • Alexis says owning IVF, foster care and adoption in public reduces stigma and affirms your family's identity.
ANECDOTE

Facing Genetic Prejudice From Loved Ones

  • Imogen faced judgment from friends and family who pushed genetic arguments against adoption.
  • She describes uncomfortable comments about 'good genes' and was surprised by the reaction.
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