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Dominatrix Fantasies and BDSM

Dec 18, 2019
Mistress Justine Cross, a Los Angeles lifestyle dominatrix who runs Dungeon East and Dungeon West and teaches BDSM safety, walks through a day in her life and how she built her career. She lists common fantasies and regional trends. Safety, negotiation, check-ins, safe words, aftercare, and how BDSM principles help even those who identify as vanilla are highlighted.
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ADVICE

Prioritize Safety Over Thrills

  • Avoid dangerous breath play and never leave someone tied up alone.
  • Learn safe techniques and consult qualified professionals before trying high-risk play.
ADVICE

Ease Into Bondage

  • Talk through interests, turn-ons, and boundaries before trying bondage.
  • Start slow with simple restraints and consider blindfolds to heighten sensation.
ADVICE

Negotiate, Check-In, And Aftercare

  • Negotiate boundaries before a scene and check in during play using safe words.
  • Do aftercare to process emotions and reinforce connection after scenes.
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