
Girl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship Stories Dominatrix Fantasies and BDSM
Dec 18, 2019
Mistress Justine Cross, a Los Angeles lifestyle dominatrix who runs Dungeon East and Dungeon West and teaches BDSM safety, walks through a day in her life and how she built her career. She lists common fantasies and regional trends. Safety, negotiation, check-ins, safe words, aftercare, and how BDSM principles help even those who identify as vanilla are highlighted.
AI Snips
Chapters
Books
Transcript
Episode notes
Prioritize Safety Over Thrills
- Avoid dangerous breath play and never leave someone tied up alone.
- Learn safe techniques and consult qualified professionals before trying high-risk play.
Ease Into Bondage
- Talk through interests, turn-ons, and boundaries before trying bondage.
- Start slow with simple restraints and consider blindfolds to heighten sensation.
Negotiate, Check-In, And Aftercare
- Negotiate boundaries before a scene and check in during play using safe words.
- Do aftercare to process emotions and reinforce connection after scenes.

