Falling in Love with Yourself and Meeting Your Soulmate with Alyssa Lynch

Feb 18, 2026

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This week on Transform, the Samis are back with their bestie, Alyssa Lynch, for Part 2 of their Shoot the Shit, girlie catch-up. Together, they get real about soulmates, surrendering to where you’re at in life, and letting things unfold without forcing a timeline.

Alyssa opens up about the highs and lows of her relationship journey, from draining dynamics to being single, to finding the relationship she’s in today. They talk about the pressure to “find your forever person,” how to get out of fear mode, and why focusing on yourself and choosing yourself first is what actually attracts the kind of love you deserve.

To end, they switch gears into another major life leap: Alyssa’s move to Ojai, and the bigger question so many of us are sitting with right now… where are we going next, and where do we want to build our lives? Tune in for honest girl talk and the reminder that what’s meant for you will never miss you.

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