Getting to Yes, And… | Paul Eastwick – ‘The Secrets to Finding True Love’

In this engaging conversation, Kelly connects with Paul Eastwick to discuss his new book, ‘Bonded by Evolution,’ exploring misconceptions about love and connection. He critiques the outdated ‘Evo script’ that shapes our understanding of attraction and relationships, emphasizing the impact of modern dating practices. Eastwick highlights the fluidity of attraction, the importance of close relationships, and the science behind breakups and attachment. He advocates for a constructive approach to building relationships, recognizing the role of change and the power of listening and validation in fostering connection.

“We like different people for different reasons, which just adds to the chaos of it all.” 

“Learning your place in the dating pool can be a brutal process.” 

“No one enjoys being stuck in the friendzone.”