Focus on the Family with Jim Daly Love in the Midst of Alzheimer's
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Feb 2, 2026 Robertson McQuilkin, former Columbia International University president who left his career to care for his wife, shares a story of steadfast devotion. He recounts how love becomes daily action, the moment he chose care over career, and the small sacrifices that defined long-term commitment. Conversations touch on partnership in marriage, early signs of Alzheimer’s, and finding purpose in caregiving.
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A Lifelong Companion Who Taught Love
- Robertson McQuilkin describes meeting and marrying Muriel, highlighting her vivacious faith and creative devotion to him.
- He credits her daily actions and partnership for shaping his understanding of genuine, active love.
Love Is Active, Not Just Feelings
- McQuilkin emphasizes love as a verb requiring daily, sacrificial actions rather than mere feelings.
- He compares loving a spouse to Christ giving himself up for the church as the ultimate model of self-giving.
Marriage As A Full Partnership
- Muriel worked alongside Robertson as a full partner in ministry and campus life, serving students and hosting events.
- Robertson recounts pulling rank only a few times and jokes that Muriel kept score, illustrating true partnership dynamics.
