
The Tamsen Show How To Find Real Love With The #1 Relationship Expert Jillian Turecki
Apr 30, 2025
In this eye-opening discussion, relationship expert Jillian Turecki, author of the bestselling book 'It Begins With You,' shares her insightful journey from yoga to relationship coaching. She emphasizes that real love starts within. Listeners learn about the top dating mistake of excessive texting, the importance of confidence in dating, and why it's healthier to be single than in a toxic relationship. Jillian also challenges the myth of the 'one' soulmate, advocating for understanding love's complexities and prioritizing self-care in midlife.
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Life-Altering Turning Point
- Jillian Turecki describes a turning point: miscarriage, her mother dying, and her husband leaving all on the same day.
- That crisis launched her into studying relationships and rebuilding her life.
Be Selective With Second Dates
- Stop giving second dates to people who show character red flags and only give second dates to those you genuinely like.
- Give potential connections time to reveal themselves across varied settings before deciding.
Quit Endless Texting
- Avoid constant texting with strangers and prioritize phone calls or in-person meetings instead.
- Limit app use with boundaries so a stranger doesn't become the center of your life.




