Orion Taraban - The Michael Sartain Podcast

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Jul 24, 2024

Dr. Orion Taraban, a clinical psychologist and creator of PsycHacks, dives into the shifting dynamics of modern dating. He discusses the price valuation of sex and the paradox of dating apps, where digital interaction contrasts with declining marriage rates. Exploring the complexities of attraction, he highlights how societal status and financial dynamics affect relationships. Taraban also examines the influence of testosterone on behavior and the emotional responses to infidelity, revealing intriguing insights into contemporary romance.

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ADVICE

Waiting for Sex Attracts Low-Value Men

If a woman makes a man wait for sex, she attracts men with too much free time, often lower status.
Men with many options rarely wait long; women must assess opportunity costs carefully.

INSIGHT

Three Genders In Dating Market

A three-gender concept highlights differences: high-status men, low-status men, and women.
High-status men and low-status men differ in neurology, behavior, and reproductive patterns.

ADVICE

Master Communication to Attract Women

Money alone won't attract women; communication and seduction skills are crucial.
Men must improve how they engage women's emotions beyond relying on status or financial proxies.

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Dr Orion Taraban, Psy.D. (IG: @psyc.hacks ) is a clinical psychologist in private practice and the creator of PsycHacks, a popular podcast devoted to relationships and personal development. He's the author of a new book, The Value of Others. He's got over 500,000 subs on YouTube. ————————————————————

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0:00 Intro 1:02 *The price valuation of sex 7:09 Reconciling dating apps 10:05 *Defining sexual marketplace value 14:16 The $50,000 beer 17:31 *The attempted mutiny 25:37 Escorts and prostitution 28:56 *The five outcomes for women 32:37 Making the other wait for sex 34:35 The three genders 36:17 How men can improve themselves 40:33 Attraction proxies 44:45 *Evolutionary mismatches and survival scenarios 48:09 *Testosterone in women 49:52 *Cheating 56:46 Being famous is like being a woman 1:03:14 *The evolution of Orion's YouTube channel 1:11:02 The impact of fame 1:17:37 Cowardice is men's greatest enemy 1:22:11 *Force women to advance the relationship 1:27:12 *Differences in the perception of attraction 1:30:12 *Women disrespect men unintentionally 1:32:03 *It is impossible for a woman to love a man she doesn't respect 1:38:44 *The part women always leave out 1:44:10 Male self-improvement is not real for women 1:51:17 Disappointing women 1:54:10 *The concept of pre-selection 2:04:12 Perfect vs imperfect information 2:05:56 The pitfalls of being super attractive 2:11:26 If you punish the truth, you're asking to be lied to 2:14:58 Becoming your own prophet 2:18:31 The reason for writing the book 2:23:45 Outro