Dinner’s on Me with Jesse Tyler Ferguson Dan Bucatinsky – On Coming Out in Hollywood, Teaming Up with Lisa Kudrow & Finding Success After 40
Mar 10, 2026
Dan Bucatinsky, actor/writer/producer known for The Comeback and Scandal, shares stories from hiding his love life in early Hollywood to scoring a late-career Emmy. He recalls teaming up with Lisa Kudrow, almost missing dinners with stars, and finding major success after 40. The conversation hops between theater roots, adoption and family, and the surprises of show business.
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Hiding Behind A Parked Car To Protect A Career
- Dan hid behind a parked car to avoid being seen shopping for area rugs with Don because he was keeping their relationship secret for years.
- He spent six to seven years privately dating while fearing being seen in public with his partner early in his career.
Authenticity Improves Acting Work
- Pretending to be someone else adds an extra layer that disconnects an actor from honest performances.
- Dan learned that being specific and closer to his true self improved his craft after years of limited roles.
Decide Early Whether To Be Out As An Actor
- Decide if you will be out or not early and be as specific to your true self as possible when performing.
- Dan advises young actors that clarity about identity helps connect more genuinely to roles.