The Intentional Parents Podcast Neurodiverse children, chronic illness, and conflict in marriage. (Q+R)
Sep 7, 2022
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Kid Noticed Creation And Said God's Painting Again
- Elizabeth recounts her daughter saying "God's painting again" when seeing the sky, showing how children notice creation as a way to connect with God.
- Phil ties that to Psalm 19: the heavens declare God's glory, using walks to train noticing.
Grieve Expectations Then Teach Advocacy
- Grieve lost expectations first so you can move to celebrating your child's wiring instead of reacting with frustration.
- Teach specific self-advocacy language early (e.g., "My brain gets stuck; I need a break") so the child can ask for help.
Teach Functioning Not Excusing
- Teach neurodiverse children to function in the family and public world rather than isolating or excusing all behaviors.
- Give them language for their needs (e.g., "I need to go on a walk") and practice those routines so they can advocate later.