Ask Pastor John How to Argue with Your Spouse
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Jan 9, 2015 
Francis Chan, pastor, author, and speaker known for teaching on discipleship and marriage, joins to tackle conflict in marriage. He explains why focusing on mission reduces fights. He urges husbands to live with understanding and humility, citing 1 Peter 3. He encourages letting go of petty disputes and prioritizing eternal priorities over winning.
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Amazing Race Analogy For Marriage Arguments
- Francis Chan shares that he and Lisa rarely argue because they feel pressed for time on mission.
- He uses the TV show The Amazing Race to illustrate couples who fight and lose ground while racing toward a finish.
Prioritize Mission Over Petty Fights
- Do prioritize kingdom work over petty marital fights to avoid wasting limited time.
- Francis Chan compares marriage to The Amazing Race and says spending time fighting costs progress on mission and discipleship.
Honor Your Spouse To Preserve Prayer
- Do treat your spouse as a fellow heir of God's grace because it affects your prayer life.
- Chan cites 1 Peter 3:7, warning that mistreating your wife can hinder your prayers and urging honor toward her.
