"Be like water, making its way through cracks. Do not be assertive, but adjust to the object, and you shall find a way round or through it. If nothing within you stays rigid, outward things will disclose themselves." - Bruce Lee / the universe is designed to assist us - so don't be so rigid / the balance of knowing when to be soft like grass and when to be rigid like a tree / instead of sizing up the whole world find the good qualities / you won't find self worth through others' shortcomings / to serve the universe - start by meditating on it's source
SB 4.24.71-79