The 1000 Hours Outside Podcast

1KHO 576: How To Get Good at Joy When You Don’t Like Your Likable Life | Rachel Awtrey, Love Your Life

Sep 18, 2025
In this engaging discussion, Rachel Awtrey, author and host of Real Talk with Rachel Awtrey, shares wisdom on finding joy despite life's chaos. She talks about treating joy as a muscle and highlights three types of hard days. Rachel emphasizes the power of asking for help to strengthen friendships and warns against the pitfalls of comparison. Listeners learn practical tips like outdoor meals, grounding exercises, and the importance of adult play to enhance daily joy. Her insights serve as a reminder that small changes can make a big difference.
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Nod To Hard Things Without Bowing

  • Nod to hardships without bowing to them: acknowledge pain but refuse to let it define you.
  • Surrender by admitting what hasn't worked and intentionally lean into small joys and whimsy.
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Tell Someone And Share The Load

  • When small interruptions derail you, tell a trusted person and share the load instead of hiding it.
  • Asking for help on low-pressure issues trains friends to step in during bigger crises.
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Ask For Small Favors Early

  • Ask neighbors or friends for concrete small favors (leftovers, help with dinner, baths) when you're overwhelmed.
  • Practice asking now so help becomes muscle memory before urgent needs arise.
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