Be Here Now Network Guest Podcast

Ep. 209 - Why We Suffer with Buddhist Teacher Gil Fronsdal

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May 23, 2025
Gil Fronsdal, longtime Buddhist teacher and co-teacher at Insight Meditation Center, offers gentle, practical wisdom. He discusses how mindfulness helps detect clinging, why suffering is a mental activity that can be released, and how to hold pain with care so it feels safe. Short practices and images like shedding skin illustrate staying present, cultivating well-being, and loosening the grip that keeps us in pain.
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INSIGHT

Suffering Is A Mental Activity

  • Suffering is an activity of the mind and therefore can be stopped by changing mental activity.
  • Fronsdal contrasts this with peace and love as deeper qualities of heart that are not merely mental activities.
INSIGHT

See Suffering As A Tangled Composite

  • The Buddha analyzed suffering as a composite tangle whose pieces can be seen when we slow down with mindfulness.
  • Fronsdal references dependent origination and the "big ball of yarn" metaphor to show clinging is one identifiable piece.
ADVICE

Support Suffering Rather Than Pry It Open

  • Do meet suffering with supportive, kind attention rather than trying to pry it away.
  • Fronsdal uses the fist and coconut-monkey stories to show supporting the grip from underneath allows natural letting go.
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