How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett

How to Be Bold, Flirty—and Never, Ever ‘That Creepy Guy’: A Dating Guide for Modern Gentlemen

Jun 3, 2025
Navigating the dating scene can be tricky, especially in today’s climate of heightened awareness. Discover how to flirt confidently without crossing boundaries. Learn the ins and outs of texting, making a move at work, and asking for a kiss with respect. There’s also valuable advice on how to sext the right way and what to keep in mind when inviting someone over. Ultimately, it’s about being bold yet respectful, while building genuine connections that resonate.
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ADVICE

Lead The Dating Dance

  • Take initiative by asking a woman out and leading the dating dance.
  • Don't just give her your number; ask for hers to avoid putting her in a masculine role.
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Avoid The Lunge: Kiss Right

  • Go for the first kiss but avoid the sudden lunge.
  • Slowly build physical contact and wait for her reciprocal signals before kissing.
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Sexy Consent Without Asking Permission

  • Don't ask permission to kiss her, as it sounds unsexy and medieval.
  • Instead, tell her you want to kiss her and see how she responds to create romantic tension.
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