Sons of Patriarchy

Rachael Denhollander on the LIES Churches Believe About Abuse

Nov 29, 2025
Rachael Denhollander, an attorney and abuse survivor, shares her expertise on how churches handle abuse allegations. She discusses the importance of trauma-informed responses and the misuse of biblical standards like the 'two or three witnesses' argument. Rachael emphasizes the need for independent investigations and outlines the limits of pastoral confidentiality. With a focus on empowering survivors, she debunks misconceptions about reporting and highlights the significance of ethical media representation.
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ANECDOTE

Micro‑Corroboration From Church Witnesses

  • Rachael describes a case where micro‑corroboration came from a congregant who saw the accused in a bathroom with a girl.
  • A third person later reported a friend had seen the same encounter, strengthening the victim's claim.
ADVICE

Be Transparent To Find Corroboration

  • Announce allegations factually to the congregation with enough specificity to prompt micro‑corroborations.
  • Explain steps taken (police, independent assessor) so exculpatory or corroborating evidence can surface.
INSIGHT

Two‑Witness Rule Misused

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