Internalizers vs. Externalizers

What if the hardest relationship of your life was the one that raised you?

Recorded LIVE at the Innovations in Psychotherapy Conference in Anaheim, CA (October 2025) — in front of an incredible audience of therapists and mental health professionals — this powerful conversation with renowned psychologist and bestselling author of Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents, Lindsay C. Gibson, brings depth, clarity, and practical healing to one of the most talked-about topics in mental health today.

Dr. Gibson reveals the hidden patterns of emotionally immature parents, and how growing up with one may still be shaping your adult life in ways you don’t even realize. She breaks down:

- Subtle (and not-so-subtle) characteristics of an emotionally immature parent

- 4 distinct types of emotionally immature parents, and how each one impacts a child differently

- What children of emotionally immature parents look like in adulthood

- How they function in romantic relationships (people-pleasing, over-caretaking, fear of conflict, emotional shutdown, & more)

- Powerful connection between emotional immaturity, codependency, alcoholism, & even chronic illness

- Why being forced into emotional caretaking as a child can damage your intuition & sense of self

- How emotional immaturity differs from diagnoses like narcissistic personality disorder and borderline personality disorder

- How to become an emotionally mature parent (even if you didn’t have one)

- Cultural shift in parenting expectations, and why so many adults are just now recognizing their childhood wounds

- Double-edged sword of social media: self-diagnosis vs. finally realizing you’re not alone

- How to know when to set boundaries: When to limit contact & when healing the relationship is actually possible

- Practical, actionable steps to rebuild your confidence, strengthen your sense of self, & learn how to truly connect

Most importantly, we explore why recognizing you were raised by an emotionally immature parent is not about blame — it’s about healing. As Dr. Gibson explains, many parents were doing the best they could with the emotional tools they had. Understanding that truth can be the first step toward freedom, forgiveness, and breaking generational cycles.

If you’ve ever felt:

- “Why do I feel responsible for everyone else’s emotions?”

- “Why is it so hard for me to trust myself?”

- “Why do my relationships feel one-sided or exhausting?”

- “Was my childhood actually normal, or was something missing?”

This conversation might change how you see your past — and your future. Watch until the end for Dr. Gibson’s most powerful advice on reclaiming your intuition, strengthening your identity, and becoming the emotionally mature adult (and parent) you needed.

You are not broken. You are not alone. And healing is possible.

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Dr. Lindsay Gibson’s latest book, How to Raise an Emotionally Mature Child, will be available May 2026: https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/750876/how-to-raise-an-emotionally-mature-child-by-lindsay-c-gibson-psyd/

2026 Innovations in Psychotherapy Conference: https://innovationsinpsychotherapy.com/

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