The Importance of Attraction in Identity Conversations

i think too often when we start identity conversations we start going like okay well you know like we're just attracted to different people or something along these lines. Let's talk about what these words actually mean right so i really wanted to start with Angela Chen's book one because i want to talk it up again. and be like okay on one two three let's say the words libido with a target it just  is where it all is starts to go come together. I'm not going to go over all of the books that i have pulled or all of the ideas that i have pull but i do also want to specifically do a quick note to thank some of the people who have written