You Know, Shame and Guilt Work Really Well

Shame and guilt work amazingly well at controlling people's behavior. What i want you to do instead is be the opposite of that. Be a beacon of focusing on the positives that occur in bed with your partner. If they're a little ove weight, don't mention it in bed because people ave very vulnerable emotionally in bed. They're very sensitive that sort of thing. Instead, talk about other things, and then bring the issue up gently outside of the bedroom,. And offer your assistance in some way, if you want to, if you don't want to. I've heard varying degrees of advicen ness. The at one end of the of this spectrum is advice from