Uniqueness and the Goldilocks Name

Baby names are in inexhaustible cultural text. They're a way to talk about class, race, and gender, of course — but also the way we perform familial respect and coherence. In this episode, sociologist Hannah Emery — who wrote her dissertation on baby names — joins us to talk about the history of baby names, how naming conventions and aspirations have changed over the last century, and the broad and specific requests parents bring to her as a naming consultant. It's all fascinating — and I can't wait to continue the conversation (about our names and the names of the children in our lives) in the comments.

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Show Notes:

• You can find Hannah's fascinating name newsletter here (Try starting with this piece on middle names)

• I put Melody's name graph up top but here's mine (you can find yours for the U.S. here)

• The Top U.S. Names of 2025 According to BabyCenter:

• This made me laugh

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