The Power of Trigger Words

When we're in communication and it's flowing, then you and I don't even argue about anything. You mean when you actually feel like I care about being in the relationship? Yeah. What are trigger words that women use that you hang out with or see or out and about and you go, oh shit, they don't get it? Like is there words? "I'm gonna give you a couple trigger words that happen for guys and see if it triggers anything for you as a woman"