What Are You in for When You're Writing This Question In?

I would venture to guess that one of the best things you can do for yourself right now is to examine and name the feelings that you have, not just about the situation with this guy, but also about sending this question in. My first impression was that you were looking for some validation. After all, you did ask me if there's something wrong with a man loving two women,. as if there might be some discomfort around simply feeling what you need to feel without having at first to be approved by some one else. I'm geting a little bit lost in the grey area of all this since throwing me for a loop. Sorry, i warry.