In this listener special episode of #TheHabitCoach Podcast, Host Ashdin answers an interesting question from an anonymous listener - they ask "My parents constantly complain that I ignore them and don't care for them. However, because of their pressure, I compromised on many of my aspirations, I ended up buying a house when I wasn't ready. I didn't have enough down deposit amount and ended up taking a personal loan apart from a housing loan to fulfill their dream. This is on top of an education loan and another personal loan that I had already taken a few years ago. Today, I have no money that I can spend on or for myself since every penny goes towards EMIs. There is my sister's wedding which they expect me to fund and I don't know where I can get that money from. I try hard to not let their constant complaining affect me but it's hard. I know I can't change them but I want peace of mind without which my performance at work is taking a huge hit. I'm worried about losing my job if this goes on. How can I deal with this? I need to change myself to handle them...thank you in advance."
Ashdin answers by explaining why there's a need to unpack certain things like - Insecurities, denial and setting principles. He further shares the importance of understanding our own aspirations and how to say No to other people without being rude to others. Ashdin also talks about a few super simple habits that can help people to make better financial and life decisions. Tune in to this awesome episode to understand how to set your own principles.
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