Balancing time with money for couples

Roger Whitney explores one of the most overlooked variables in retirement planning: longevity, and how assuming you’ll live too long can quietly force you to save more, spend less, and potentially miss out on life. Through a conversation with Dr. Bobby Du Bois, he challenges default planning assumptions, walks through the real trade-offs, and introduces a practical way to think about lifespan so you can better align your money with how you actually want to live.

OUTLINE OF THIS EPISODE OF THE RETIREMENT ANSWER MAN

• (00:00) This show is dedicated to helping you not just survive retirement, but have the confidence to lean in and rock it.
• (01:13) Roger introduces the idea that we plan heavily for running out of money but rarely consider the probability of running out of life.
• (02:04) Roger recognizes everyone who reached out about Sherlock’s passing and plays an audio message from a listener.

ROCKING RETIREMENT IN THE WILD

• (03:50) Jerry shares how returning to backpacking in retirement helped him reconnect with friends and stay physically and mentally engaged.

PRACTICAL PLANNING SEGMENT WITH DR. BOBBY

• (05:50) Roger and Dr. Bobby explore why longevity assumptions are often flawed and how they directly impact how much money you think you need.
• (23:54) The conversation shifts to the limits of predicting lifespan and the emotional and behavioral implications of trying to do so.
• (29:55) Real-life examples illustrate how longevity assumptions influence major life decisions like when to retire and how to spend your time.

ROGER’S LONGEVITY FRAMEWORK

• (35:25) Roger introduces a practical approach to making more thoughtful longevity assumptions without overcomplicating the process.

SMART SPRINT

• (53:10) Use a simple longevity calculator to form a baseline assumption and decide how conservative you want to be in your planning.

ON THE BOOKSHELF

• (54:35) Roger shares what the team is reading.

REFERENCES

• Submit a Question for Roger
• Sign up for The Noodle
• Actuaries Longevity Illustrator
• Humans vs Retirement podcast with Dan Haylett

BOOKS

• The Fellowship of the Ring by J.R.R. Tolkien 
• Alice's Adventures in Wonderland by Lewis Carroll 
  
  

Note: The opinions expressed are for informational purposes only and should not replace personalized advice from licensed professionals.