How to Encourage Yourself

A divorce is proof that you believed in love and went for it. You're not sitting back, you aren't hoping things happen - you are living your temporary years on planet Earth. There's no failure if there's no action, there's no bravery, no courage in the first place. When you can celebrate every tiny victory, when you can enjoy thrills from little wins, those failures, those heavy feelings, they can lighten up a little.