Are We Advancing God's Kingdom or Are We Pursuing Ours?

When we use sex in ways that is all about self expression and self satisfaction, we've devoted it to our own kingdom. But there's another way to think about sex and sexuality, which is according to God within the context of marriage to be used to give yourself to your spouse. You see, sex itself, kingdom directed for self fulfillment or self giving, shaped by God's word. We could go on and on, but can you begin to see throughout our life every single day, whether the words you use your work, your relation, we're all pursuing kingdoms? Are we advancing God's kingdom in the world or are we pursuing our own?