Savage Love & Hookup Hangup
Dates & Mates with Damona Hoffman
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Detaching Meaning From Hookups That Fizzle Out?
Dan: A caller says she wants to detach meaning from hookups that fizzle out. Dan: If you're the kind of person who obsesses about, I guess, the rejection that's implicit in a hookup that fizzled out over time, man, you're going to want to maybe hold back. There's no guarantee that holding back means a new hookup or relationship won'tfizzle out. Men arrive at partnered sex usually on their own orgasms because men have been masturbating for four years and it wasn't pleasurable for me when I was 19-years-old. Are too many women not having ever masturbated or not having really become experts on pleasing themselves
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