In this meeting of The Late Diagnosis Club, Dr Angela Kingdon welcomes Shyloe Fayad, a late-diagnosed Autistic school counsellor and somatic experiencing practitioner based on the stolen land of the Syilx people of the Okanagan in Canada.

Shyloe works both within schools and in private practice, supporting neurodivergent people, mixed race communities, and teens and adults navigating depression and anxiety.

Together, Angela and Shyloe explore sensitivity, boundaries, and the quiet but radical act of honouring your own needs in a culture that often teaches you not to.

🪑 Attendees

Chair: Dr Angela Kingdon — Author, community-builder, and Autistic advocate

Guest: Shyloe Fayad — Late-diagnosed Autistic School counsellor and somatic experiencing practitioner

You: The Listener!

🗒️ Meeting Agenda

Opening remarks from the Chair
Member introduction: Learning to trust your own needs
Discussion: Sensitivity, boundaries, and self-trust
Late diagnosis and identity integration
Cultural conditioning and productivity expectations
Emotional processing and internal timing
Accountability vs compassion
Key learnings
Club announcements

🧾 Minutes from the Meeting

1️⃣ Opening Remarks

Angela welcomes Shyloe Fayad to the club, introducing a conversation centred on emotional sensitivity, self-trust, and rebuilding your relationship with yourself after a late diagnosis.

2️⃣ Member Introduction: Shyloe’s Story

Shyloe was raised in environments that prioritised productivity, deadlines, and external expectations over internal needs. Over time, this led to a disconnection from her own timing and instincts, something she began to recognise and unlearn following her late Autism diagnosis.

Her work as a counsellor and somatic practitioner informs this perspective, grounding the conversation in the body, nervous system, and the lived experience of navigating a world that often teaches people not to trust themselves.

3️⃣ Discussion Highlights

Sensitivity: Experiencing the world deeply and needing space to process
Self-trust: Relearning how to listen to internal signals
Cultural conditioning: Being taught your needs are “less important”
Productivity pressure: Deadlines overriding well-being
Women and masking: Social expectations shaping behaviour
Accountability vs compassion: The tension between rules and humanity
Black-and-white thinking: Wanting clear rules in complex social situations
Community: Drawing strength from like-minded people
Emotional care: Protecting your “sensitive heart”

4️⃣ Key Learnings

You have been taught not to trust your needs — and that can be unlearned.
Sensitivity is not a weakness, but something to be protected.
There is no perfect rulebook for being human — only ongoing adjustment.
Accountability and compassion must coexist.
Late diagnosis is the beginning of rebuilding self-trust.
Community can help you navigate a world that feels misaligned.
Honouring your needs is a practice, not a one-time decision.
You can start again — as many times as you need.

📌 Notice Board

Contact Shyloe: radicalwondering@gmail.com
Shyloe’s Instagram
Radical Wondering Instagram
Facebook: Shyloe Fayad

📣 Club Announcements

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🎙️ Executive Producers: Amy Burns, Anamaria B Call, Andrew Banner, Anna Goodson, Ashley Apelzin, Audrea Volker, Ben Coulson, Brian Churcek, Cappy Hamper, Carley Biblin, Charlene Deva, Chloe Cross, Clay Duhigg, Clayton Oliver, Danny Dunn, Daria Brown, David Garrido, Emily Burgess, Eric Crane, Erik Stenerud, Fiona Baker, Grace Norman, Helen Shaddock, Jaimie Collins, Jason Killian, Jen Unruh, Jennifer Carpenter, Julia Tretter, Kathie Watson-Gray, Kenneth Knowles, Kira Cotter, Kristine Lang, Kyle Raney, Llew P Williams, Laura Alvarado, Laura De Vito, Laura Provonsha, Lily George, Nelly Darmi, Nigel Rogers, Rachel Miller, Tim Scott, Tyler Kunz, Victoria Steed, Yanina Wood.

🎧 Producers: AJ Knight, Bobby Simon, Da Kovac, Eleanor Collins, Emily Griffiths, Hannah Hughes, Jennifer Kemp, Jonas Fløde, Kate F, Katie N Benitez, Kendra Murphy, Lisa Dennys, Logan Wall, Louise Lomas, Melissa Nance, Nicola Owen, Rebecka Johansson, Sam Morris, Sarah Hannah Morris.

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