The Sensing Data - Is That What Is Happening to Me?

We create conceptual reality in a way that is relevant to us and is in our terms, usually from our experiences. When the sense of self arises, can your make sense of your reaction to it? Is it neutral? Is there a sense of curiosity about why i might be reacting in this way to these conditions? Or is there such an immediate identification that we take on that belief that this is who i am, and this is what's happening to me? Ari: Can you give us more kind of concrete examples about these three senses of self and then the reactions to them?