In this jam-packed (and super practical) conversation, I sits down with Elizabeth Urbanowicz, founder of Foundation Worldview, to tackle “the talk” for kids ages 4–10—without the awkwardness, the shame, or the purity-culture baggage.
Elizabeth models exact, age-appropriate language for:
Bodies + biology (male/female, privacy, and protection)
Sex + marriage (framed as a covenant promise, not a dirty secret)
Reproduction (simple, clear, and biblical)
Pornography (the “Stop, Run, Tell” plan every child needs)
Gender confusion + transgender claims (truth with compassion)
Homosexuality (God’s design, sin’s distortion, and the hope of the gospel)
Masturbation (when and how to address it)
We also discuss the modesty conversation, responding to the painful message many girls heard in church: “Cover up or men will lust.” Instead, we reframe modesty as redirecting attention back to God...without making the body feel inherently shameful.
If you’ve been hesitant because you don’t want to “mess it up,” this episode will put tools in your hand and confidence in your words.
Resources mentioned: Helping Your Kids Know God’s Good Design: 40 Questions and Answers on Sexuality and Gender by Elizabeth Urbanowicz.
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