The Importance of Permission in a Situation

I feel like people take things very personal and they personalize it. And the thing you have to understand is sharia and what is permissible. What I would do and what I wouldn't do is a personal thing for me, probably personally. It doesn't change the hakam Shala. That's what I think. So all through this, we've been speaking about a Shala is ruling. And what should someone do under that situation? Shara you ruling. If a person can get their family in a way that they don't have to uprise, get their family back and Shara they can do it.