1200: Confession: How Not to Ruin your Relationship by Dr. Diana Kirschner of Love in 90 Days
Optimal Relationships Daily - Dating, Marriage and Parenting
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The Ten Minute Miracle Session
When we started to drift apart early in our marriage, sam and i committed to schedule a formal ten minute miracle session with each other every other day. One person gets to talk free, associate or say whatever is on his or her mind, while the other simply listens with complete and full attention. The listener acts like a good therapist who is present and listening from a non judgmental state. After more than 25 years together, sam and I still regularly used these ten minute miracle sessions to to know each other all over again. It has allowed my husband and me to weather family upsets, disappointments, setbacks, losses and other assorted challenges that are an inevitable part of living a life together.
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