Is There a Conflict in a Marriage?

i wonder if you have any advice for husbands when it comes to cultivating that closeness with your wife. There's not one right way to handle conflict in a marriage, both my wife and i very passionate peoplefairly strong willed, stubborn people and pretty sensitive people. We we have very few periods of conflict that are drawn out. They're pretty ike, intense, quick, passionate. But the done over it like or better on the other side.