Episode Highlights With Paul
- His journey to get to the work he does now
- The metaphor of dance and how it relates to everything
- Somatic healing and how it comes into play
- “It’s sacred, not serious.”
- What the Habit Finder is and how this gives different information than regular personality tests
- Inductive assessments vs deductive assessment like the Habit Finder
- Identity is very fluid and trauma can often become a core element of identity
- Trauma is not what happened to you, its what's going on inside of you
- The body was never meant to be a storage facility for the energy of trauma which is trapped energy
- Every human has experienced the most traumatic thing a human can experience in birth
- Finding authenticity in the function of the game we are all playing
- We thought the brain was the command center, but it actually receives more guidance from the body than it sends
- The energy it takes to build something will always be the energy it takes to maintain it
- Your life is exactly as you need it to be and how understanding this can shift so much
- The liminal space that lets life be easier and more successful, can be accessed, and how to learn how
- The difference between obligation and devotion
- What a horizontal relationship is and why this is so important
- Why many of the things we do that we think are for our children are actually for our own benefit
- If your child lies to you, its because they don’t feel safe. That doesn’t mean its ok, just that it requires different intention
- After age 7, the primary role of a parent is to be the safe place for them to come back to when they experience the world
- Why to reconsider not giving advice that isn’t asked for even with our children!
- The devil is only the devil when it is rejected
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